Since I have got marry with Jason, my life has changed a lot. Firstly, I would not walk to the beach and watch the sunset lonely. I would not celebrate summer x’mas and New Year by myself in here. Secondly, I have got a companion who can spend more time to listen my talking. Jason is good listener. Also he has a big, warm of heart to everyone. He loves to try new things. Such as new culture, food, ect; he is humor person, sometimes he is so funny. He always makes me laugh, especially when I am angry with him. I reckoned only Jason can deal with my bad temper. I feel so lucky to find out a person who has a good temper, but also he has a similar personality as me (open heart, more activities) we always have a same idea or same point to spend on the weekend.

 Any way, Jason works hard everyday. Normally, I am responsible to cook his dinner, plus his lunch. I don’t think I am good cooker. My parents cooked for me before I went to oversea. After I was in Auckland for studying, I have to cook by myself. I learned to cook different food, including India, tai, Italy and also Chinese. So Now I cook Chinese meal mostly for him. But I also change his taste, even he has got use to eat Chinese food everyday. I thought he is a half of Chinese now. it is easy to feed him. Ehehe… On the weekend, I do not need to tell Jason. He will make coffee and breakfast for me. And then he will dish wish and set up the bed. He quite enjoys his cooking in the evening. He always pride of presenting his cooking to me. Sometimes it’s really good, but sometimes I will say to him “its interesting taste” in fact, the taste is not very nice. eheh…

 Jason gives me simple, peace, happy and love life now. I feel I am so spoil; he always meets my needs which I want. I knew that most of kiwi husband would not do the things to their wife. The reason for that is the money. They are so mean and self-center in this country. They care about themselves and their own money too much. I saw one time that a couple argued with the money in the shopping mall. A husband blamed his wife about spending his money. At that time, I asked Jason “does kiwi couple always like this” He said “most of people in here have separate money things from their wife or partner, this is easy way to reduce some money matter” I felt that I am so lucky. Jason has never complained with me about my spending. If I want something, jason would not say any words and buy for me. Even I want to have a Chihuahua puppy; he bought for me as my x’mas gift. So many small sweet things happen in our life everyday. 

 Love does not need to hang on the mouth. I like my husband does more actions to me rather than he say to me “I love you, honey” everyday. Jason did do the thing that let’s me happy. He said “if you are happy, I will be happy, because you- my Chinese wife always makes me happy” well, what can I say? This is my lovely ‘bloody” western husband.

writen by tingting